Introduction
Traditions are an integral part of human culture. They provide a sense of continuity, stability, and connection with the past. For Christians, traditions often hold a deep and sacred place in their hearts, with customs and rituals passed down through generations. While traditions can be innocent and beautiful, they can also become a stumbling block to progress with spiritual growth if not approached with discernment. In this post, we will explore why traditions, while seemingly innocent in nature, can be problematic from a Christian Biblical perspective. We will also discuss the importance of embracing change and being open to giving up traditions when they hinder our journey through life.
- Tradition vs. Scripture
One of the primary concerns with traditions is when they deviate from or supersede the teachings of Scripture. Jesus Himself rebuked the Pharisees for their overemphasis on traditions at the expense of God’s commandments. In Matthew 15:3-6, He said, “And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition?” This passage underscores the importance of putting God’s Word above all else. Traditions should never contradict or undermine the teachings of the Bible.
- Stifling Spiritual Growth
Traditions can unintentionally stifle spiritual growth by creating a comfort zone that discourages exploration and adaptation. The Apostle Paul, in his letter to the Colossians, warns against being “taken captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition” (Colossians 2:8). When we cling to traditions rigidly, we risk missing out on opportunities for personal and communal growth in our faith.
- Divisiveness
Traditions can lead to divisions within the Christian community. Paul addresses this issue in his first letter to the Corinthians when he admonishes them for creating factions based on following certain leaders and traditions. In 1 Corinthians 1:10-13, he urges unity in the body of Christ, emphasizing that it’s not about human traditions but about being one in Christ.
- Cultural and Historical Context
Traditions are often rooted in the cultural and historical context in which they originated. Over time, these traditions may lose their relevance or even become a source of confusion. As Christians, we must be willing to reevaluate and adapt our traditions to better align with the changing world and contemporary needs.
This equally applies to secular traditions as well, such as holiday traditions, family get togethers or any such events. I think it’s a natural trait of humanity that makes us enjoy traditional things/events especially when it involves coming together with family. That being said, I’m sure there are many out there that don’t care much for it, however, I think the majority of folks probably do enjoy such things. The catch is, as time goes on, families grow and expand to the point that the traditions may not be able to be fully upheld by everyone any longer.
For example, holiday gatherings such as Thanksgiving or Christmas get togethers. Often times families will have had a long held tradition of getting together with the family on those days. After a couple of generations passes, the family will have grown and expanded to a much larger number than it was before, to the point that there may not even be a house or local spot available that will hold the whole family for such a gathering. On top of that, each individual family unit will have their own obligations/expectations that they need to tend to. The original family may continue to get together traditionally on a specified day, but some of the extended family units may desire to get together with some of their other extended family during those times/holidays on those same days when “they” are getting together. Since you can’t be in more than one place at a time, that makes it difficult to hold to ALL of the traditions of times past. That doesn’t mean that those folks don’t love or care for the original family anymore or anything like that necessarily.
Too many times though, folks will get upset and bitter about such things, clinging tightly to their traditions and requiring that everyone else does too, and if they don’t, then they cause issues by stirring up strife. This strife can come in many different forms, a couple of which that come to mind are, guilt tripping (making people feel guilty for not participating in the tradition any more) and party pooping (if it’s not going to be “my way,” the way it always was before, then I’d just rather not even get together at all or if we do then I’ll make it awkward or a lousy time for everyone).
In those cases, we need to be considerate of everyone involved and not get so hung up on the tradition, after all, we’re supposed to love the people and getting together with them, but instead it would seem we actually care more about the tradition than the people. Doesn’t that sure sound sad when you think about it. Unfortunately that is often the case though. We need to be open to change in many regards, but especially when it comes to letting go of traditions or at the very least, modifying them.
- The Spirit of Legalism
One of the most dangerous aspects of traditions is their potential to cultivate a spirit of legalism, where adhering to rituals and customs becomes more important than a relationship with people or with God. In Galatians 5:1, Paul writes, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” We must guard against turning traditions into legalistic requirements that weigh us down and limit our spiritual freedom.
Embracing Change and Growth
In the Christian faith, change and adaptation are not only acceptable but often necessary. As we grow in our relationship with God and as the world evolves, our faith should also evolve to meet the challenges and opportunities presented to us. Here are some biblical principles that encourage Christians to embrace change and be open to giving up traditions when necessary:
- Renewed Mindset: Romans 12:2 encourages believers to “not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” This transformation requires a willingness to let go of traditions that hinder our spiritual growth and conform to God’s will.
- Prioritizing Love: Jesus taught us the two greatest commandments in Matthew 22:37-40: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. […] Love your neighbor as yourself.” When traditions hinder our ability to love and serve others, we should consider letting them go.
- Flexibility: James 1:19 advises, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.” Being open to change and willing to listen to others is essential for fostering unity and growth within the Church as well as with family and friends.
Conclusion
Traditions, while often deeply meaningful and cherished, can become problematic when they impede spiritual growth, create divisions, or turn into legalistic rituals. As Christians, it is crucial to evaluate our traditions regularly, align them with the teachings of Scripture, and be open to change when necessary. Embracing change within the context of a strong, Christ-centered faith can lead to personal and communal growth, while fostering unity and love within the body of Christ. In the words of the Apostle Paul, “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed” (John 8:36). Let us seek that freedom and transformation in Christ, even if it means letting go of some cherished traditions along the way.
